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The Turn Around


”Wait so let me get this straight, every time you ask for water at a restaurant you pour some lemonade in your cup to go with it? That’s stealing.” I brushed off the question with telling her that I was saving restaurants all over the world lemons but the honesty stung more than I would’ve liked to admit. Okay so you can enter the judgement responses in the email section below but I had always poured lemonade in my water and to me it was the same as sneaking sour patch kids from the dollar tree into the movie theaters. She was right all along whether people viewed this dilemma as a big deal or not, stealing is stealing even if it’s just a tiny bit. I had to own up, say sorry and repent (now when I ask for water I easily put five lemons in my cup which has become a hazard for my health considering that’s twelve seeds floating around your straw).

I feel like repentance is such a strong word for our church culture now these days. We love to talk about God’s mercy and grace but to talk about repenting for our sins? That becomes harsh and almost extreme. I remember going over to my friend’s house when I was around 5 years old playing with our collective toys and seeing his brand new Batman action figure complete with a cloth cape. I couldn’t find one that was going to look like the one he had in a million years so I reasoned in my head that I should long term borrow it. I figured I would give it to him when he retires from his job and gets to be a grandfather. “Hey you remember that limited edition Batman action figure that you had when we were five? You can have it back, thanks for letting me borrow it! Oh and tell your 3 grandkids that the reason the left leg looks beaten up, it’s because a dog chewed on it once.” My mom caught me playing with it walking back home and somehow knew we couldn’t afford such a limited edition action figure. This is when I heard the word repent for the first time.

In the Bible, the word repent means “to change one’s mind.” The full biblical definition of repentance is a change of mind that results in a change of action.

“Repent therefore, and turn back, that your sins may be blotted out,”- (Acts 3:19)

Repentance is not just an action but rather a position towards God in which we offer our brokenness and selfishness and accept God’s forgiveness.

Why is this so hard? Because of the fall of man our brain naturally runs towards our desires, our plans, our feelings, our way of getting what we want when we want it. To turn around and change our thinking runs against who we are. Thankfully we grow with a beautiful Savior who doesn’t let us settle and doesn’t want us to die in our ways. So what if you’re like me? A sinner who messes up and feels like the Batman action figure is in our hands? How do we go back and what does repentance look like?

Repentance Process:

-Confess

Sin needs to be exposed.

Part of making sure we don’t backslide into our old ways is by revealing our true darkness to God and others you can trust. Because we get to be the children of light as Christians it means we have the hard task of shining light in our own lives. We don’t get to be hypocrites or secretive anymore, we now get to right wrongs and follow a pattern of reconciliation in our lives and live unashamed. Nothing becomes achieved by lying or hiding.

"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9).

-Accept

That sin is a bigger deal.

In the same way you would never let a child play with Pokemon cards in the middle of a busy street, (thank God Pokemon is making a comeback am I right?) God also doesn’t want for us to run towards danger. Every time we sin we separate ourselves from God and run towards death. The bible describes our human nature since the fall of man as Iniquity (behavior that’s crooked), transgression (breaking trust), and sin (to fail or miss the goal). When we sin we miss our destination or fail to meet a goal that God has intended for us to achieve. Because the Bible tells us that we were all created in God’s image, sin is a distortion of that image and a way we treat people not in the way that we deserve. In short, sin causes for us to stray towards a path that leads to separation from God and distorts the way God had intended for us to treat His people.

“For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 6:23)

-Reject

The lies Satan tells you.

This is where a lot of times I get stuck whenever I repent. The realization that what I’ve done has hurt others I love or the God that loves me, I tend to think of myself as a failure. This is not God’s plan for repentance either. It’s so important to mourn over how devastating sin can be but it’s even more important to not stay there. This is where Satan wants to trap you and keep you: as a failure, reject, and someone who indulges in shame and guilt. Reject these lies and rejoice in forgiveness.

“You are of your father the devil, and your will is to do your father's desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks out of his own character, for he is a liar and the father of lies.- (John 8:44)